A Friend Who Will Hold Your Hand


We are all trying to move further ahead in life and be in a better place than we are today or have been in the past; there is always room for improvement. We find a lot of areas that need working upon be it in terms of our education, financial management, relationships or our nature. We may have set a list of goals for ourselves but we don’t know how to actually achieve them. It is even possible that we are doing one thing in life but it never really feels right and we don’t feel good about it.

If you have these questions too, maybe your answer is a coach. That’s right! Now you may be thinking about some man in his middle ages, a cap on his head cheering for his team and instructing them on how to play the game. While the coach I’m talking about will also be instructing you on how to play this game called life, he won’t necessarily look like a usual coach.

I’m talking about a life coach. This person is equipped with everything that

Why Should She Respect You If You Have Nothing To Offer?


In reality though the real reason why she does not respect you is because of this!

You have nothing to offer as far as getting your life together.

Yes getting yourself together for yourself so that they will notice you, crave your attention, be around you. When you got yourself together you feel better, look better and command respect.

Women like to talk smack and make you feel bad about your manliness but do not fall for this nonsense because they do want a man who acts like a man, does things like men and can handle himself in any situation without falling to their knees and giving up!

By nature women need to be with men and men need to be with women.

Women also want a man who has resources, which is why Rich Men always do better with the women than Poor Men. There is no turning this around as this is how Nature works. The one with the most resources gets to breed while the one who has no resources is left watching on the sidelines.

Do me the favor and stop rolling

Our Responsibility As A Spouse


Our responsibility as a spouse as defined in the Book of Ephesians is to love the other as our own body and to show respect.

That is the ultimate ingredient for a happy marriage. But the Bible doesn’t go into detail about what to do when your spouse wants to go off and pursue his dream or work on personal development and become a whole new person. But the bigger question is: does it really need to? Like we can’t figure out from “love your spouse like your own body” that just because a spouse wants to better himself doesn’t mean we should throw up the walls and forbid it.

Today’s culture is so focused on the here and now and instant gratification that many of us are willing to drop something if it isn’t working out. Today, we see married couples separating for a number of reasons. When life gets a little rough, they are quick to call it quits and move onto what they think are greener pastures.

Where is the commitment? What happened to the marriage vows they took at their

Marriage Success

Dear Ones,

In the Hindu family, mutual respect, love and understanding are the bedrock of harmony. By not fighting, arguing or criticizing, members cultivate a spiritual environment in which all may progress.

Hindu ideals of manhood and womanhood and their interaction are among the most subtle, insightful and graceful in all the world. When followed, these principles strengthen man and woman, sustain a joyous and balanced marriage, and stabilize the family. Of course, such high ideals are rarely followed to perfection. But the soul’s inner perfection is naturally revealed in the attempt.

I am a born again Hindu, 73 years young. I have had 8 children, (7 surviving), by 5 beautiful mothers, but until I studied with my Guru I could never get a relationship to last more than 12 years. Many lasted less.

First of all my Guru taught us that men and women’s minds are different. A man will make a decision on what he thinks, on his analysis of the matter. On the other hand a woman will decide on how she feels about it. I do not mean that men cannot act on gut feelings, but thinking is more common. So how does this work. For one, you, as a

So What Stands in Your Way From Having a Satisfying Relationship? Finding Out Is the Key to Success

Many women are quite “susceptible” to suffer after a broken relationship. The reasons might be many, and might differ from one woman to another. However, the main issue is, whether a woman can “learn” how to maintain a successful intimate relationship and not having the need to look for a new partner time and again. The answer is quite a simple one: when you develop Self-Awareness, getting to understand what, in your attitudes and behaviors cause a relationship to fail, you can then become empowered to develop and maintain a successful intimacy.

Some of the ways by which you sabotage your relationships

To love and be loved is wonderful. However, when you love “without borders”; when you give of yourself unconditionally (which is very romantic); when you “sacrifice” yourself “at the altar of the relationship”; when you let your partner dictate the nature of the relationship (or lack of), rather than making sure you have a relationship of mutual give & take, you then might find yourself, time and again, frustrated, bitter, sad and alone.

What makes you behave in such self-sabotaging ways?

The reasons might be many, and might differ from one woman to another. You might behave that way out of

Why Disguising As “Empathic”, “Loving” and “Caring” Doesn’t Lead You to an Intimate Relationship

There are those who “devote” themselves so blindly to their partners that such a devotion borders on sacrifice. Maeve Binchy, a well-admired Irish author, has a short story about a woman who fell in love, cut short her studies in order to help her partner organize his academic conferences and assisted him in editing his curriculum vitae. All went “just fine” between them, until she got pregnant – and he left her…

Are people so na├»ve? Does it make sense to sacrifice yourself to such an absolute degree? Does love blind you and makes you dizzy? Don’t people understand that intimate relationships are supposed to be mutual, give and take, and that if this is not the case the relationship will end up down hill? Don’t people understand that investing in themselves while in a relationship (and not only in their partner) means investing, at the same time, in the relationship?

What drives people to be there 100% for their partner(s)?

What drives people to “love so much”? To behave as if they are totally “empathic” towards their partner?

I say “as if” since this is neither a true empathy, nor an authentic one. What they try to do with their “empathy” is

Love Poems From My Heart

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This is a Poem from my heart about living in the present moment and enjoying the attention, presence and love of the One for You!

Just BE with me.

Just Sit with me.

Just Allow me to Dwell in your divine succulent presence.

Just BE you without distractions.

Just BE you without your protective walls.

Just BE you, the romantic king that makes my Queen’s heart swell with divine love.

Just BE you, the gentleman that I know you are and can choose to Be.

Just BE you, the kind and loving soul that I know you are.

Just BE you, the authentic perfect “designed by God” king made for greatness destined to soar and roar.

Just BE you, my Hero, the one who swept me off my feet with your divine sexy eyes and generous heart.

Let’s carry each other in the beauty and magnificence of our united spirits, in this moment.

The only moment there is.

Just BE with me in the NOW.

No one else exists.

No one else matters.

Just you and I.

Your attention is more priceless than anything you could ever give me.

So just BE with me in this moment, because for now, only you and I exist surrounded by the grace and love of God in the sacredness of